相处舒服，是最好的朋友关系

相处舒服，是最好的朋友关系

《易经》：同声相应，同气相求。水流湿，火就燥。

和自己同频率的人在一起，你会觉得舒服又随意，时间总是在不知不觉间流逝，哪怕心头多么乌云密布，也仿佛瞬间被驱散，即使默默不语感觉也惬意。

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图丨茶人世安

与频率不同的人在一起，则浑身感觉不自在，不得不戴上虚假的面具，说着违心的话语，听各种莫名其妙的抱怨，最后结果搞得自己心情颓丧。

有些人你相处起来费劲，有些事你看不惯看不懂，别勉强自己。

何必为了不值得的人生气，何必为了挤不进的圈子着急。进不去的圈子不适合你，费力不讨好的朋友不值得你珍惜。

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图丨敦素古美

庄子说：君子之交淡如水，小人之交甘若醴。

平淡相交，聊得来，说得开，不掩饰，不累心，这是交友时最舒服的状态。事实证明，舒服才是和朋友最好的相处模式，这样的友谊也不会轻易消散。

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周国平说：与人相处，如果你感到格外的轻松，在轻松中又感到真实的教益，我敢断定你一定遇到了你的同类，哪怕你们从事着截然不同的职业。

生活已经很累了，不要再勉强自己，远离那些让你感觉不舒服的人，结交那些相处舒服让你更好的朋友。

英语翻译：

Getting along well is the best friend relationship

The Book of Changes: One voice corresponds to the other, and one voice seeks the other. When the water is wet, the fire is dry.

When you are with people of your own frequency, you will feel comfortable and casual, and time will always pass without knowing it. Even if your heart is covered with dark clouds, it seems to be dispelled instantly, and even if you are silent, you will feel comfortable.

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Tu Ya Cha Ren An

When you are with people with different frequencies, you feel uncomfortable all over. You have to wear a false mask, talk against your will, and listen to all kinds of inexplicable complaints. As a result, you feel depressed.

Some people are difficult for you to get along with, and some things you don't like or understand. Don't force yourself.

Why be angry for unworthy people, and why worry for circles that can't be squeezed in. A circle that you can't get into is not suitable for you, and a friend who is hard to please is not worth cherishing.

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Tu tong dun su gu mei

Zhuangzi said: A gentleman's friendship is as light as water, but a little man's friendship is as sweet as ever.

It's the most comfortable state to make friends, that is, to be insipid, to talk, to be open, not to hide, and not to be tired. Facts have proved that comfort is the best way to get along with friends, and such friendship will not easily dissipate.

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Figure, capacity and small order

Zhou Guoping said: When you get along with people, if you feel extraordinarily relaxed and feel real lessons in your relaxation, I am sure that you will meet your kind, even if you are engaged in very different professions.

Life is already very tired, don't force yourself, stay away from those who make you feel uncomfortable, and make friends who get along well and make you better.