红玫瑰与白玫瑰读后感

每个男人的心中都有两朵玫瑰，取了红玫瑰，久而久之，红的变成了墙上的一抹蚊子血，白的还是“床前明月光”;取了白玫瑰，白的便是衣服上的一粒饭粘子，红的却是心口上的一颗朱砂痣，张爱玲的小说《红玫瑰与白玫瑰》里的这段话成了脍炙人口的名言，说出了多少男人的心声，又令多少女人为之感叹感慨。张爱玲是长袖善舞的写作高手，她那充满着艺术灵性的表达，使作品中的人物形象呼之欲出。玫瑰的原型源于男主人公振保在英国留学时候认识的一个姑娘的名字，因为是初恋，所以他把以后的女人都比作玫瑰，回国以后他以为同玫瑰永诀了，直到有一天他又遇到了朋友的妻子娇蕊，仿佛玫瑰以另一种形式又回来了。

写在过往日子里

他的心里到处是她，牵牵绊绊的，像吃醉了酒似得，而且这个女人比玫瑰更有程度了。但是姣蕊放弃了家庭想要和他在一起时，他又暴露出了男人怯懦而世俗的一面，拒绝了热情奔放的姣蕊取了中规中矩的烟鹂，虽然不是自己心爱的，但却是放心的。

振保总希望爱的不一样，曾经爱的，时间长了也会觉得很无趣，他为了实现自己理想的生活，却害了自己和两个女人。振宝喜欢的是红玫瑰，那热烈的、充满情趣与诱惑的，在他看来娶不得的女人，但他臣服于道德礼教、社会规范之下，选择了世俗眼光下的贤妻良母白玫瑰作为他的妻子。

当振保在公交车上再度遇到娇蕊时，这个被他曾经深深伤过的女人，还能真挚地对他说:“是从你起，我才学会了，怎样，爱，认真的……爱到底是好的，虽然吃了苦，以后还是要爱的……”。

写在回忆中

她老了，因为她得到了生活的历练，更因为受到爱情的伤害，然而她到底学会了爱，那些岁月也就不枉过了，甚至可以抵消她从前的荒唐和伤痕，但振保和他的妻却始终没有学会，也许有生之年也学不会。烟鹂的爱是义务性的，只因为社会要求她爱丈夫而产生，那个人不过碰巧是振保，就为了这点她的丈夫厌恶她。他嫉妒娇蕊，嫉妒她受伤后居然还有爱的勇气。振保哭了，在镜子里，他看见他的眼泪滔滔留下来，为什么，他也不知道。在这一类的会晤里，如果必须有人哭泣，那应当是她。这完全不对，然而他竟不能止住自己，应当是她哭，由他来安慰她的。而他回到家里，发现本分的烟鹂和裁缝偷情，还有比这讽刺的吗?他蓦然发现，原来自己从没有真正活过，寻寻觅觅，几经波折，绕了一大圈后，却又回到了原点，在他的爱情领域里，仍是孤身一人，因为，他学不会爱人，所以也永远找不到真爱。张爱玲对于人物的描绘可以说是入木三分，在她的小说里，红玫瑰天真任性，风情万种，白玫瑰有着传统女性的懦弱，男人在红白玫瑰间挣扎，以为做了自己世界的主人，实则遵循了命运的安排，同所有自负的男人一样，自认为最理想的选择成为生命中不可抹灭的遗憾!虽然他有房子、有老婆、有小孩，可是在他内心深处是有缺憾的，白玫瑰虽然还在自己的花园里，娴静呆板而空洞乏味，那热情美艳的红玫瑰却因为分离成了他心中永不枯萎的妖艳。得不到的，永远是最好的，红玫瑰是白日梦，脆弱到一触即烟消云散却绚烂异常，白玫瑰是白开水，乏味到不可救药却平实温暖，散发着人间烟火的安逸。

写在思念里

也许男人总是在爱的漩涡里挣扎，纠结于到底喜欢哪一朵玫瑰，但世间的女人都梦想有一个男人能够深情的爱着自己，至死不渝。男人和女人在情感世界里纠缠着、痛苦着，相互需要却又相互不理解。事实上，每个女人都是百变而古怪精灵的，灵魂中可能同时存在着红玫瑰与白玫瑰，在不同的男人面前展露出不一样的色彩，只有读懂她的男人，才能看到她的精彩绽放，感受到她的芳香迷人，令他爱的女人越来越美。所以，若相爱请深爱，守护好自己的那朵玫瑰，就算是在烈焰里燃烧也依然是刻骨铭心的。如若不爱，那么连开始也不要有，免得那不幸的玫瑰因得不到爱的给养而枯萎!

英语翻译：

Every man has two roses in his heart. When he takes a red rose, over time, the red one becomes a smear of mosquito blood on the wall, and the white one is still "the moonlight in front of the bed." A grain of rice sticks on the top, but the red one is a cinnabar mole on the heart. This passage in Zhang Ailing’s novel "Red Roses and White Roses" has become a well-known saying, and how many men’s voices have been said. How many women sigh with emotion. Zhang Ailing is a master of writing with long sleeves and good dancers. Her expressive artistic spirit makes the characters in her works ready to emerge. The prototype of Rose is derived from the name of a girl that the hero Zhenbao met when he was studying in the UK. Because it was his first love, he compared all future women to roses. After returning to China, he thought that the same rose forever, until one day he met again. When I arrived at my friend's wife Jiaorui, it seemed that Rose had returned in another form.

Written in the past

She was everywhere in his heart, entangled, like drunk, and this woman was more advanced than Rose. But when Jiaorui gave up his family and wanted to be with him, he exposed the cowardly and worldly side of a man. He rejected the enthusiastic Jiaorui and took the well-behaved Cigarette. Although not his beloved, he was relieved. .

Zhenbao always hopes that the love is different. The ones who once loved will feel boring after a long time. In order to realize his ideal life, he has harmed himself and two women. Zhenbao likes the red rose, that passionate, full of interest and temptation, in his opinion the woman who cannot marry, but he surrendered to the morality, etiquette and social norms, and chose the good wife and mother white rose from the secular perspective. As his wife.

When Zhenbao met Jiaorui again on the bus, this woman who had been deeply hurt by him could still say to him sincerely: "It’s from you that I learned, how, love, serious ... Love is good, even though I have suffered, I still need to love...".

Written in memory

She is old, because she has gained the experience of life, and even more because she has been hurt by love. However, after she has learned to love, those years will not be in vain, and it can even offset her previous absurdity and scars, but Zhenbao and him His wife has never learned, and maybe she will not learn it in her lifetime. Yanli's love is compulsory, only because society requires her to love her husband. That person just happened to be Zhenbao, and for this, her husband hated her. He is jealous of Jiaorui, jealous that she still has the courage to love after being injured. Zhenbao cried. In the mirror, he saw his tears lingering. He didn't know why. In this type of meeting, if someone must cry, it should be her. This is totally wrong, but he can't stop himself, she should be crying, and he should comfort her. And when he returned home, he found that the smoky bird and the tailor were affair. Is there anything more ironic than this? He suddenly discovered that he had never really lived, searched and searched, after several twists and turns, after a long circle, But he has returned to the original point. In his love field, he is still alone, because he can't learn to love, so he will never find true love. Zhang Ailing’s portrayal of the characters can be said to be in the woods. In her novels, the red rose is innocent and capricious, and the white rose has the cowardice of traditional women. The man struggles between the red and white roses, thinking that he is the master of his own world. Following the arrangement of fate, like all conceited men, his ideal choice has become an indelible regret in his life! Although he has a house, a wife, and a child, there are regrets deep in his heart. Although the white rose was still in his garden, dull, dull and boring, the passionate and beautiful red rose was separated into a coquettish in his heart that never withered. What you can't get is always the best. Red roses are daydreams, fragile to the touch of smoke, but they are gorgeous and unusual, white roses are boiled water, boring to incurable but plain and warm, exuding the comfort of fireworks on earth.

Written in thoughts

Maybe men are always struggling in the vortex of love, entangled in which rose they like, but women in the world dream of a man who can love themselves affectionately and will never change. Men and women are entangled and suffering in the emotional world, need each other but do not understand each other. In fact, every woman is ever-changing and weird. There may be red roses and white roses in the soul at the same time, showing different colors in front of different men. Only a man who understands her can see her. The wonderful blooming of her, feeling her fragrance and charming, make the woman he loves more and more beautiful. Therefore, if you fall in love, please love deeply, and protect your own rose, even if it burns in the flames, it is still unforgettable. If yo