赞美妈妈

阳光打在脸上，温暖留在心中。您在信中鼓励我，从一味说“不”，到学会说“行”，您是妈妈，也是过来人，我想您是试图教会我，与这美好的世界温柔相拥。

生活中不总是普照阳光，铺满鲜花，还有毒蛇吐着魅惑的信子，引诱着我们。我们从小被教导着，要学会对这个世界说“不”，以免遭受了侵害。渐渐地，我们假自我防护之名，行青春叛逆之实，躲进了自我的世界。

妈妈，您对我从不当头棒喝，而是附耳细说，我却常常摔门而去，极度任性：“我不听！”生活中与我“无关”，我就从不关心；我永远戴着耳麦，除了咿呀的的音乐，自己的心跳，听不见同学们的欢声笑语。我遇事逃避，总是蜷缩在卑微的角落，不敢尝试独立飞翔，害怕折翅，随着身高渐长，我越来越像襁褓中的巨婴。

我不仅对外界说“不”，还将您拒之门外，伤害了您和爱我的人。我习惯于在厚厚的镜片后，在虚拟的世界里，麻痹自己。我将自己脆弱的玻璃心，包裹在厚厚的壳里。我的心始终如“小小的寂寞的城”，东风不来，柳絮不飞。刘心武先生说“春从心出”，可我的世界，永远都是天寒地冻。别看我的朋友圈里，点赞很多，却少有知心朋友。我留给同学们的，永远是一个遗世独立的背影。

今天，读到您的信，仿佛这个午后的阳光，不显炽烈，但很暖人，我内心的坚冰似乎在一点点地消融。从明天起，做一个幸福的人，这是海子的愿景，也将是我的生活宣言。

从一味说“不”，到学会说“行”，学会感恩，学会独立，学会担当，学会家事国事天下事，事事关心，学会渐渐打开自己，与这世界温暖相拥。我将走出书斋，到大自然中去，走进真实的生活；我将卸下厚厚的铠甲，和同学们热情相拥，拍拍肩膀，手挽手，告诉自己，我不是一个人在战斗。

我踽踽独行的身影，开始与他人同框；我不再自我，抢占C位，学会走向身后。我不再是孤芳自赏的墙角的花。我瘦削的双肩，渐渐宽厚。我乐意地点头允诺：“这样行！”我也自信地大声说：“我能行！”从“不”到“行”，这是我的小转变，也是我的大飞跃。

妈妈，我终于明白，我的路需要我自己走下去。一味说“不”，我的成长将有缺失。而试着说“行”，我的世界更缤纷，“走过平湖烟雨，岁月山河，那些历尽劫数，尝遍百味的人，会更加生动而干净”。

英语翻译：

The sun hits the face, and the warmth stays in the heart. You encouraged me in your letter, from simply saying "no" to learning to say "OK". You are a mother and someone who came here. I think you are trying to teach me to embrace this beautiful world tenderly.

Life is not always full of sunshine, full of flowers, and poisonous snakes spit out enchanting letters, tempting us. We have been taught since we were young to learn to say "no" to the world so as not to be harmed. Gradually, under the pretext of self-protection, we practiced youth and rebellion and hid in our own world.

Mom, you never drank to me, but talked with your ears, but I often slammed the door away, extremely capricious: "I don't listen!" In life, it has nothing to do with me. I never cared; I always wear it. The headset, except for the babbling music, my heartbeat, I could not hear the laughter of the students. I ran away from trouble, always curled up in a humble corner, afraid to try to fly independently, afraid of folding my wings, as I grew taller, I became more and more like a giant baby in a swaddle.

Not only did I say "no" to the outside world, I also shut you out, hurting you and the people who love me. I am used to paralyzing myself in a virtual world behind thick lenses. I wrapped my fragile glass heart in a thick shell. My heart is always like a "little lonely city", the catkins will not fly if the east wind does not come. Mr. Liu Xinwu said "Spring comes from the heart", but my world is always cold. Don't look at my circle of friends, I like a lot, but I have few close friends. What I leave to my classmates is always an independent back from the world.

Today, when I read your letter, it seems that the afternoon sun is not blazing, but very warm. The ice in my heart seems to be melting little by little. From tomorrow on, to be a happy person is Haizi’s vision and will be my life statement.

From blindly saying "No" to learning to say "Yes", learning to be grateful, learning to be independent, learning to take responsibility, learning family affairs, national affairs, and caring about everything, learning to gradually open oneself and embrace the world warmly. I will go out of my study, go to nature, and walk into real life; I will take off my thick armor, embrace my classmates enthusiastically, pat my shoulders, arm my hands, and tell myself that I am not fighting alone. .

As I walked alone, I started to be in the same frame as others; I stopped being myself, grabbing the C position, and learned to walk behind me. I'm no longer a corner flower for lonely self-admiration. My thin shoulders gradually became wider. I happily nodded and promised: "This is what I do!" I also confidently said loudly: "I can do it!" From "no" to "ok", this is my small change and also a big leap for me.

Mom, I finally understand that I need to go on my own way. Just say "no", my growth will be missing. And try to say "OK", my world will be more colorful, "Those who have gone through the tribulations and tasted all kinds of things will be more vivid and clean after walking through the mists and rains of Pinghu, the years and rivers."