假如我是妈妈

现在许多家长都望子成龙，望女成凤，对孩子要求过严，结果导致父母与孩子的心灵隔了一堵无形的墙。

假如我是一个妈妈，我有一个可爱的孩子，那么我会这样对他说：

当你取得好成绩的时候，我会和你欢欣鼓舞，但同时我必须提醒你要戒骄戒躁，因为你未来的路还很长、很苦；当你遇到挫折的时候，我会给你很多的鼓励，让你有勇气前进；当你把你的小伙伴带回家时，我会像喜欢你一样喜欢他们。

假如你喜欢画画，我会给你买多彩的画笔；假如你喜欢音乐，我会给你买许多的磁带……我会尊重你的爱好和选择，决不会把自己未了的心愿强压在你的肩上。但你不要指望我为你铺床，更不要指望我为你整理书包、系鞋带儿………妈妈就是妈妈，不是保姆。

总之，假如我是妈妈，我像对待朋友一样尊重你，帮助你，不让那堵无形的墙出现在你我之间。

英语翻译：

Many parents now hope that their children will become dragons and their daughters will become phoenixes. They are too strict with their children. As a result, there is an invisible wall between the hearts of parents and children.

If I were a mother and I had a lovely child, then I would say to him like this:

When you get good grades, I will rejoice with you, but at the same time I must remind you to guard against arrogance and rashness, because your future road is still very long and hard; when you encounter setbacks, I will give A lot of your encouragement gives you the courage to move forward; when you bring your friends home, I will like them as much as you.

If you like painting, I will buy you colorful paintbrushes; if you like music, I will buy you a lot of tapes... I will respect your hobbies and choices, and will never force my unfulfilled wishes on On your shoulders. But you don't expect me to make the bed for you, let alone organize your schoolbags and tie your shoelaces for you... Mom is a mother, not a nanny.

In short, if I were a mother, I would respect you like a friend, help you, and prevent that invisible wall from appearing between you and me.