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致家长的一封信

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发表时间:2021-03-18 22:14



此时,您的心情或许既兴奋又担心。因为我们的孩子已经步入人生旅途上的一个新的起点,在新生活开始的时候,如果我们缺乏心理准备,不能及时调整的话,就会出现不适应。为了帮助我们的孩子迈好关键的每一步,今天就最重要的两个话题与大家进行探讨:

怎样配合学校工作,

做优秀的家长?


前苏联教育家苏霍姆林斯基说:“两个教育者——学校和家庭,不仅要一致行动,要向孩子提出同样的要求,而且要志同道合,抱着一致的信念,始终从同一原则出发,无论在教育的目的上、过程上,还是手段上,都不要发生分歧。”


确实,教育好孩子可真是一件不容易的事情,它牵涉到家庭教育与学校的教育能不能有效结合,形成合力;牵涉到家长的教育观念与学校的教育观念是不是一致,能不能形成共识。


为了使我们的孩子发展得更好,希望我们的家长能尽力支持学校的工作,做到以下几点:


亲其师信其道,挖掘老师的闪光点,引导孩子喜欢自己的科任老师


有很多孩子有偏科的现象,有部分原因就是不喜欢自己的科任老师。老师是人不是神,有缺点很正常,我们要引导孩子正确对待。千万不要乱评价教师,特别是在孩子面前妄评某老师“太严”啦,或者某某老师“没有水平”,等等。


记得有一届我带初一时,我和一位幽默风趣的英语老师搭档,这个英语带的两个班成绩稳居年级前列。一个学期后,英语老师生孩子去了,换成了一位温柔认真的老师。

我很早就给孩子们传达观念:我们要学会适应老师,新的老师也很优秀。家长也积极配合引导孩子适应新老师,孩子们很快就适应了新老师的教学,三年里我们班的英语一直名列前茅。


通过电话、QQ、微信,多与老师沟通


家长平时应注意观察孩子的动向,如发现孩子精神状态不好,吃饭睡觉不香、花钱大方等异常表现,要及时与老师联系,了解孩子的情况,以便有针对性地进行教育。特别是不要听孩子的一面之词。


记得我当第一届班主任时,班上有个孩子叫小吉,开学第一周她妈妈给我电话说“你们这样的名校怎么还搞体罚呀?”原来,因为孩子在外教课上扔纸团,被外教罚站了一节课。


每次这个孩子犯了错误,家长就听孩子的一面之词,然后指责老师,导致孩子越来越嚣张,听说后来变成了社会上的小混混了!很多老师都为这个孩子惋惜。


理解老师工作的艰辛,帮助老师为班级做一些力所能及的事情


我曾碰到一对情商非常高的母女。


开学第一天,我还在办公室里收拾东西,妈妈和孩子就找到我。


“范老师,您好!我叫陈**,是您班上的学生。有什么忙要帮的吗?”

我很感动,回答道“暂时没有!”

“那我们就把班上的卫生搞好吧!”她妈妈说。

家长信任我,配合我,我没有理由不用心工作。


做一位老师喜欢的家长


我电话采访过几位老师,问他们最喜欢什么样的家长,最不喜欢什么样的家长?


A老师说: 最喜欢给班级出谋划策的家长;最不喜欢在QQ微信群里说三道四,破坏班级团结的家长。


B老师说: 最喜欢理解老师,支持老师工作的家长;最不喜欢碰到问题,只会指责老师的家长。


C老师说:最喜欢负责任,明事理的家长;最不喜欢把孩子丢到学校,不管不问不负责任的家长。


我们要明白,家长和老师的相遇,就是爱和信任的相遇。有了爱,有了信任,我相信家校之间没有什么问题不能解决。

英语翻译:

At this time, your mood may be both excited and worried. Because our children have entered a new starting point on the journey of life, at the beginning of a new life, if we are not mentally prepared and unable to make adjustments in time, there will be maladjustment. In order to help our children take every crucial step, today we will discuss the two most important topics with you:

How to cooperate with school work,

Be a good parent?


Sukhomlinsky, an educator in the former Soviet Union, said: "The two educators, the school and the family, must not only act in concert and make the same demands to the children, but also have the same mindset, hold the same belief, and always follow the same principles. Set out, no matter in the purpose, process, or means of education, there should be no disagreements."


Indeed, educating good children is really not easy. It involves whether family education and school education can be effectively combined to form a synergy; whether parents’ educational concepts are consistent with school’s educational concepts, and whether a consensus can be formed .


In order to make our children develop better, we hope that our parents can do their best to support the work of the school and do the following:


Believe in his own teacher, explore the teacher’s shining points, and guide children to like their subject teacher


Many children have partial subjects. Part of the reason is that they don't like their subject teachers. Teachers are humans and not gods, and it is normal for them to have shortcomings. We must guide the children to treat them correctly. Don't judge teachers indiscriminately, especially if you judge a teacher as "too strict" in front of your children, or if a teacher is "no level", etc.


I remember that when I was in the first year of junior high school, I partnered with a humorous English teacher. The results of the two classes in this English group were firmly in the forefront of the grade. One semester later, the English teacher went to give birth and was replaced by a gentle and serious teacher.

I conveyed the concept to the children very early: we have to learn to adapt to the teacher, and the new teacher is also very good. Parents also actively cooperated in guiding children to adapt to the new teacher. The children quickly adapted to the new teacher's teaching. The English of our class has been among the best in three years.


Communicate with teachers more via phone, QQ, WeChat


Parents should pay attention to their children's movements. If they find that their children's mental state is not good, eat or sleep badly, spend generously and other abnormal behaviors, they should contact the teacher in time to understand the children's situation in order to conduct targeted education. Especially don't listen to the one-sided words of the child.


I remember when I was the first class teacher, there was a child named Xiaoji in my class. In the first week of school, her mother called me and said, "Why do you do corporal punishment in a prestigious school like yours?" It turned out because the child threw paper balls in the foreign teacher class. , Was punished by a foreign teacher for a class.


Every time the child made a mistake, the parents listened to the child's side words, and then accused the teacher, which caused the child to become more and more arrogant. I heard that he later became a gangster in society! Many teachers feel sorry for this child.


Understand the difficulties of the teacher’s work and help the teacher do something within his capacity for the class


I once met a mother and daughter with very high emotional intelligence.


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