My ideal life

For me, the ideal life is the life I love. I don’t want to define the ideal as a phrase or a topic of great goodness and beauty. For me, the ideal should always be attributed to a good life. It does not It does not occupy my mind. It is not what I have to dream of. It is just a section of my life, beautiful and kind.

When we were young, our ideological and moral teacher asked us to fill in our ideals. I used a thin pencil to write down a lot of professional names in a narrow square, such as scientists, artists, writers, policemen, teachers, gardeners, and then twisted them after writing. I tried my best to remember what words we have learned, but I looked at the same table, and it turned out that he wrote teacher, reporter, I think I know so many professional names, I think I’m smart, I held my head up and turned my head full of thoughts. Looking forward to the teacher’s praise, thinking he would say something ambitious, but the teacher reluctantly wrinkled her apricot eyebrows drawn with an eyebrow pencil, saying that I’m not very real. What I wanted to do the most, so I told him that I like watching anime the most, and then the teacher said, let's be a manga artist, well, to be a manga artist, this is my original ideal.

But after a long time, when I was no longer interested in candied haws, when I stopped watching "Pinball Police" on time, when the bus began to no longer have people carrying pockets to collect money one by one, I grew up slowly , I also began to understand something.

It is precisely because of the cruel and truthful reality that we learn to grow up. We don't want to believe that the person who kisses the frog will also become a prince. Even if he becomes a prince, he will no longer be himself.

Matter gradually wiped out my innocence, and I learned to lie. Force, I once felt sad for this kind of thing, but Guo Jingming said, I don’t think material needs to be specifically defined as good or bad. Just like a pistol in the hands of a policeman and a murderer, it has completely different functions. , But this gun itself has no good and evil. Thinking about it this way, it made me feel a little comforted. Fortunately, I should believe that I am kind.

The real ideal is not to let you hesitate, but to let you see hope. It makes you worthy of all your hard work and effort. This is the ideal. You have to own him, because he belongs to you in the first place, and you will love it very much, so you will be very happy, very happy, because I believe that love is the most affective of people's emotions, and there is no one.

At the age of less than eighteen, that is, the age when your potential is still brewing, you don’t know whether you have the ability to deal with a job of a profession, you don’t know what kind of profession is more suitable for you, just like when I was a child. I only know scientists, artists, cartoonists, writers, etc., but when I grow up I find that there are composers, editors, logistics staff, lighting engineers, etc. The world is still big, too big for you to imagine.

You can't travel the whole world to find your ideal. After all, the world is so big and chaotic, but I believe that your ideal will be not far away. You seek it just as it seeks you.

I remembered that after taking a geography class in junior high school, I surrounded two or three classmates. I used my index finger to point to various provinces on a map of China, planning where to settle. There was a girl who said she was going to the place where she would hold the most concerts among celebrities. , There was a boy who said he was going to the place with the most beautiful women. I said I didn’t know where I was going. In short, it was a big city. The big city is beyond my reach. I was born in a small mountain town in the south. Although I am used to cramped roads, I am used to seeing a diligent mother-in-law selling stinky tofu for three yuan at a corner. I'm used to the local dialect of yelling and go to the clothing store to bargain. The life here is very good, simple and familiar. My feelings for my hometown are like the attachment and enjoyment of a baby sucking the full breasts of my birth mother, but when I grow up I become a 16 When I was a year-old boy, my hometown seemed to be unable to give me a sense of freshness. I began to yearn for freedom and adventure, and I also unconsciously looked forward to the outside world.

I hope that I will live in Wuzhen like the Shanshui Gallery in the future, with lotus buds waiting to be planted, ancient walls full of creepers, every thin crack infiltrating the nostalgic flavor of the Republic of China, let my room There is a floor-to-ceiling window facing the sun, in front of which is planted a pot of lush green dill, cream-colored glass curtains hanging straight down with tassels, there is a wooden desk, a book of Dai Wangshu's poems, and a cup of fragrant latte.

What a beautiful fantasy.

Everyone yearns for a state of ease and relaxation, and also longs for leisure to watch the flowers bloom and fall in front of the court, letting go, but life is not allowed. It gives you warmth and pours cold water on you, but the annoyance is sometimes Ask you if it is fun? If you don't accept it, it will haunt you, if you accept it, it will embrace you.

Are you happy? You often feel unhappy because you can’t be yourself, because you have not lived an ideal life. You open the movie aimlessly, walk down the street to buy a cup of milk tea, just flip through the book, and then Sleeping backwards, life is like this, there is no fun, but you may refute me to the nourishment and fulfillment of your life, the plot in the movie is wonderful, the milk tea is delicious, the book is beautiful, you sleep soundly, you feel happy, but you Is there a pursuit?

I am now writing a new article. The boy on the court scored another three-pointer, and the student at the front table solved a problem again and again, again and again. Persevere in the same thing, work hard day after day, work tirelessly, maybe you can keep working hard until you close your eyes, but you still don’t feel tired. This is persistence, that is, love to have ideals. Individuals are always busy and know best. People who love life, I also have ideals in my heart. Everyone has ideals, but I believe that some people’s dreams are fictitious. If you have no ideals, like Wang Feng in "The Voice of China" asking why you stand On this stage, you are as awkward as you can’t say anything. There’s no reason. You should need a reason to stand on this stage, but if you really don’t know what to do, don’t worry, don’t blame yourself, you will Find your ideal.

There are always 10,000 ways in life for you to grow, but there will be the best way to make you fall in love with it. This is called an ideal life. You will feel happy, confident, and fulfilled. This is the best self and the best life. I’m not sure if I can get a lot of wealth and fame in the future, but I’m sure I’m not a hesitant person, there are so many forks in the street, but I will not get lost, I feel happy, if you ask me why, I You will say that I live an ideal life, and then you will be full of expectation that I will tell you how rich I am, but I will say that I just stick to the life I love.