艰难爱情

突然之间一个朋友给我推荐这部电视剧，电视剧的名字可能不是太有新意，但第一眼看到邓超演的孟皓给我眼前一亮，让我有往下看的念头。随着故事情节的发展，有了想把整部电视剧看完的想法!用了三天把它看完,心里总有种说不出的感受,

虽然感觉故事有点不切实际,但仔细回味下,还是有很多问题值得我们去深思,看到最后结局我彻底被邓超饰演的孟晧对林雨馨的爱情所感动了，印象最深的一句话就是在他去检察机关自首的时候对林雨馨说的那句话“我爱你，至死不渝”，也许是林雨馨身上的那种气质深深地吸引了他，让他这样一个在商场上如此成功的男人对这样一个女人深深的爱恋，为了爱情，他真的是宁愿失去一切，可是我总感觉这个结局太悲惨了，也许我们都喜欢看喜庆的大结局的缘故，我觉得这样一个对爱情执着的男人应该让他得到它应有的幸福，我羡慕林雨馨，羡慕他遇到的男人都是那么的爱她，呵呵,知道自己很不现实，电视剧毕竟是电视剧.这部电视剧很有观看的意义。看完了之后感想很多,演的也很出色,极致完美来形容我看后的心情。在又爱又恨中看完了这部电视剧，男女主人公之间的故事让人透彻心扉的痛伤感。孟浩说，人是一种复杂的动物，人生活在这个世界上为了生存、生活、爱情，有些时候就要不择手段，不然你会失去自己想要的东西 让自己在这个世界上留下遗憾 。

孟浩为了追求雨馨，不顾一切甚至触动法律，在两个男人战斗中，郝良死了，雨馨被孟浩的专情所感动并且深深地爱上了孟浩，但她不能原谅孟浩，因为最后她发现她的前男友郝良是被孟浩雇佣凶手杀死的。面对雨馨孟浩只好选择自首了，被判7年，结局就是这样.我认为谁都没有错，只都是因为“爱”在作祟!郝良也挺冤的，自己才华横溢，又追到了一个温柔漂亮的女友，他们俩志同道合，所谓前途无量。如果让他们两个结合，也会是一场幸福美满的婚姻。但是自己的女友被别人盯上了，所以自己成为了牺牲品。也不怪他后来变的那么不理智。孟浩很男人，除了那些触动法律的手段。他所做的一切都是情有可原的。为了追求自己的“爱”，他的表现很执着，也很专注!就算雨馨用那么的态度对待他，他还是很包容。雨馨有命遇到像孟浩这样的男人不枉来世界走一趟，不过林雨馨也太无情了，她应该在孟浩去监狱里时说一声:“我爱你”，因为孟浩的付出的也很多，在两个男人之间，林雨馨享受的爱太多了，上天对两个男人都是不公平了，而对林雨馨太眷顾了(我们在看的时候，胡哥都在旁边大骂林雨馨，我觉得骂得不错，这女人有该骂的地方)。男主人公孟浩，我觉得是我们男生学习的好榜样，有头脑有才华有自己独特的处事方式。最后我想说的是，什么事情都是勉强不来的,人只有脚踏实地的才能得到自己想要的东西。

感受最深的是孟浩将磁带交给林雨馨后的那一段感情对白，让我感觉作为一个男人他真的也很不容易,现在这个社会变的让人真的有点跟不上,呵呵,我是说让像我这样的人是永远都跟不上它的变化.整部电视剧给我的最大的震撼就是孟皓对林雨馨至死不渝的爱和自己用实际行动来证明这种爱!一开始可能觉孟皓追求林雨馨的方式方法有些让人感到害怕，但到了故事的后面作为一名观众感受最大的是孟皓对林雨馨的爱情!那种为了自己得到爱情而不惜一切的行动!为了自己心爱的人而对她无微不至的关心与照顾!曾经对爱情的理解是两个人你情我愿的事情，如果遇到单边的爱情也就没有在继续下去的必要!这曾经是我对爱情的想法。当看完这不电视剧我的想法也发生了变化。不管什么样的爱情你都需要付出的，为了你爱的人要毫无保留的付出!你要通过你的实际行动去证明你的爱!爱情可能就会回到你的身边!就像孟皓对雨馨说我会一直等着你!通过孟皓的努力雨馨也开始爱上这个人让她觉的是个落井下石乘人之危的人!不管雨馨是对孟皓什么态度，孟皓的这种对爱情海枯石烂、忠贞不渝也让我学会了当遇到单边的爱情该怎么面对!有的人可能会说孟皓对雨馨的爱情在现实生活中也有一些不可取的地方，我所想说的是我要去学会不要对爱情轻易的放弃!这是一种对爱情的信念!也不要死缠烂打!也不是说你要天天缠着你喜欢的人!你要有为爱情付出的信念!也像孟皓所说的那样爱情是付出不是索取!你要为爱情去付出才能有机会得到爱情，如果连付出都没有那就根本不可能得到爱情!很同意雨馨对爱情的理解:真诚坦白的相互面对 要用自己的全部身心跟生命去爱对方。爱情就是相互的真诚 坦白自由!

Suddenly a friend recommended this TV series to me. The name of the TV series may not be too new, but the first time I saw Meng Hao played by Deng Chao, it brightened my eyes and made me want to look down. With the development of the storyline, I have the idea of wanting to watch the whole TV series! After watching it in three days, there is always an indescribable feeling in my heart.

Although I feel that the story is a bit unrealistic, there are still many issues worth pondering after careful review. Seeing the final outcome, I was completely moved by Meng Wei's love for Lin Yuxin, played by Deng Chao. The most impressive sentence was in him. When he surrendered to the prosecutor’s office, he said to Lin Yuxin, “I love you and will never change”. Perhaps Lin Yuxin’s temperament attracted him deeply and made him such a successful man in the market. To such a woman is deeply in love, for the sake of love, he really would rather lose everything, but I always feel that this ending is too tragic, maybe we all like to watch the festive finale, I think such a persistent love A man should let him get the happiness it deserves. I envy Lin Yuxin and envy the men he meets who love her so much. Hehe, knowing that he is very unrealistic. After all, the TV series is a TV series. This TV series is very meaningful to watch. After watching it, I have a lot of thoughts, and the acting is also very good, the ultimate perfection to describe my mood after watching it. After watching this TV series in love and hate, the story between the hero and the heroine is deeply saddening. Meng Hao said that man is a complex animal. In order to survive, live, and love in this world, people sometimes have to do whatever it takes to survive, otherwise you will lose what you want and leave regrets in this world.

In order to pursue Yuxin, Meng Hao desperately even touched the law. In the battle between the two men, Hao Liang died. Yuxin was moved by Meng Hao’s devotion and fell in love with Meng Hao deeply, but she could not forgive Meng Hao. Hao, because in the end she found out that her ex-boyfriend Hao Liang was killed by a murderer hired by Meng Hao. Facing Yuxin, Meng Hao had to surrender and was sentenced to 7 years. The ending is like this. I think no one is wrong, it's all because of "love"! Hao Liang is also quite wronged, he is brilliant, and he has caught up again. A gentle and beautiful girlfriend, the two of them are like-minded, the so-called promising future. If the two of them are combined, it will be a happy marriage. But my girlfriend was targeted by others, so I became a victim. No wonder he became so irrational afterwards. Meng Hao is a man, except for those methods that touch the law. Everything he did was excusable. In order to pursue his "love", his performance is very persistent and attentive! Even if Yuxin treats him with such an attitude, he is still very tolerant. Yuxin had her life to meet a man like Meng Hao to come to the world in vain, but Lin Yuxin was too ruthless, she should say "I love you" when Meng Hao went to prison, because of Meng Hao's dedication There are also a lot of things. Between the two men, Lin Yuxin enjoys too much love. God is unfair to both men, but is too favored by Lin Yuxin. (While we were watching, Brother Hu was yelling at the side Lin Yuxin, I think the scolding is good, this woman has something to scold). The male protagonist Meng Hao, I think it is a good example for us boys to learn from. He has brains, talents and his own unique way of doing things. The last thing I want to say is that nothing can be done reluctantly, and people can only get what they want if they have their feet on the ground.

What I feel most is the emotional dialogue after Meng Hao handed over the tape to Lin Yuxin. It made me feel that as a man, it was really difficult for him. Now the society has changed so that people really can’t keep up. Hehe, I am It is said that people like me will never be able to keep up with its changes. The biggest shock that the whole TV series gave me is Meng Hao's unswerving love for Lin Yuxin and his practical actions to prove this love! Maybe Meng Hao’s way of pursuing Lin Yuxin is a bit scary, but at the end of the story, as an audience, what I feel most is Meng Hao’s love for Lin Yuxin! The kind of action that does everything for his own love! For his beloved The person who cares about and takes care of her meticulously! Once the understanding of love is the thing that two people love me. If you encounter unilateral love, there is no need to continue! This used to be my thoughts on love . After watching this TV series, my thoughts also changed. No matter what kind of love you need to give, you have to give unreservedly for the person you love! You have to prove your love through your actual actions! Love may return to you! Just like Meng Hao Tell Yuxin that I will always be waiting for you! Through Meng Hao’s efforts, Yuxin also began to fall in love with this person, which made her feel like a person who has fallen into danger! Regardless of Yuxin’s attitude towards Meng Hao, Meng Hao’s The sea of love and loyalty have also taught me how to deal with unilateral love! Some people may say that Meng Hao’s love for Yuxin also has some undesirable points in real life, I think It means that I am going to learn not to give up easily to love! This is a belief in love! Don't stalker! It does not mean that you have to pester the person you like every day! You have to pay for love Faith! Like what Meng Hao said, love is to give, not to ask! You have to give for love to have a chance to get love, if you don’t even give, then you can’t get love at all! I agree with Yuxin’s understanding of love: Facing each other sincerely and frankly, you need to use your whole body, mind, and life to love each other. Love is mutual sincerity, confession and freedom!