I will breathe like grass, on a high bank. The abyss at my feet is unfathomable, black as the backbone of a catfish. "
Gu Cheng described the surrounding environment of the green grass and its indifferent attitude towards losing and losing.
Why not follow the breath of the grass and quietly examine the winners and losers in the competition?
Living in the current life, people are gradually being threatened by all kinds of competitions. Whether it is the comparison of performance in school life or the competition of work performance in the workplace, people are always unable to escape the vicious circle of competition, so , Winning or losing after facing the competition is very important.
If you win in the competition, it is like climbing a "high bank". If you lose in the competition, it is like falling into an "unfathomable abyss". How many of us can breathe like the grass on the river bank, Rough but sweet, colorful but not stained?
The famous American essayist and thinker Thoreau once said frankly in his book "Walden Lake": "The reality of winning or losing is nothing more than a small gain and loss in life." After careful consideration, this statement is more than trustworthy. In the face of numerous competitions, winning or losing is a common occurrence. May as well breathe freely like grass, calmly face the gains and losses brought about by winning or losing. Reflect on the process of competition with the result of winning or losing, and belittle winning or losing. Reflecting on the insufficiency of oneself with rough loss, and finally regaining satisfaction, and admonishing oneself with the victory of riots to exhort oneself to be humble. These parties are the correct attitude towards winning or losing in the competition.
However, it is still unavoidable to worry about the present moment. In the face of increasingly fierce competition, people are stunned by winning or losing without knowing it. They can let go with the superficial indifference to cover up their feelings of disappointment and pride and complacency. Win or lose actually shakes people's spiritual concepts and value orientation from the subconscious. From the meaningless involution of Inspur Group that uses overtime as a competition and determines wins and losses by time, what we see is the utilitarian psychology of winning or losing cannibalize the psychology of contemporary people, and what we see is the dissolution of the desire to win or lose to the spirit of contemporary people. !
If things go on like this, how can you imagine?
Just as the "Twenty-Four Poems" said: "Empty Tan Yingchun, ancient mirrors illuminate the gods." The current misunderstanding of competition and winning or losing is reflecting the imbalance of people's mentality in the face of winning and losing and the troubles and losses of facing competition. Facing the pressure of peers, most people seem to regard winning or losing more and more importantly. Don’t know, it is precisely in the blind pursuit of winning or losing that we are becoming the “foolish citizens” described by Mr. Lu Xun. In the changing mood, he became the "lost generation" described by Hemingway...
Why not learn from the ancient people’s horse racing "not ashamed to be the last"? Why not learn from the grass on the riverbank and still be indifferent while standing on the riverbank and gazing at the abyss? The spectator who doesn’t smile" learns, treats losses rationally, and becomes the backbone of China?
Yu Du longed to breathe like grass, rough and sweet, colorful and untainted...