粗粝能甘，纷华不染

我会像青草一样地呼吸，在很高的河岸上。脚下的水渊深不可测,黑得像一种鲶鱼的脊梁。”

顾城如此这般深沉地描绘着青草的周遭环境与其面对输赢得失的淡然态度。

何妨循着青草的呼吸,静静地审视于竞赛中的输赢?

流眄于当下生活,人们正逐渐被各式各样之竞赛所裹胁,无论是学校生活中对于成绩之对比竞赛,抑或是职场内工作业绩的比拼竞赛，人们总是难逃竞赛的怪圈，于是,面对竞赛之后的输赢便显得至关重要。

若是在竞赛中获胜,即似如登上“很高的河岸”若是在竞赛中落败,即似落入“深不可测的水渊”,我们又有几人能如河岸的青草一般呼吸,粗粝而能甘、纷华却不染呢?

美国著名杂文家、思想家梭罗曾在其著作《瓦尔登湖》中坦言:“现实的输赢只不过是人生中小小的得失如此而已。”细细思索,此言余谓为信然。面对纷繁的竞赛,输赢乃常有之事。不妨如青草一般自由地呼吸，淡然地面对输赢所带来的得失。以输赢之结果反思竞赛之过程，看淡输赢。以粗粝之输反思自我之不足，终有回甘,以纷华之赢诫勉自我之成就，谦而不染。此等方为面对竞赛之输赢之正确态度。

然揆诸当下，仍不免忧心。面对愈发激烈的竞赛竞争，人们竟自湎于输赢而不自知，以表面之不在乎放得下，掩盖心中的怅然若失与骄傲自满。输赢竟从潜意识中动摇了人们的精神观念与价值取向。从浪潮集团以加班为竞赛、以时长定输赢的无意义内卷中,我们看到的是输赢之功利心理对当代人心理的蚕食,看到的是输赢之胜负欲对当代人精神的消解!

长此以往,何堪设想?

恰如《二十四诗品》中所言:“空谭映春，古镜照神。”当下对竞赛与输赢的错误认知正映照出的是人们面对输赢的心态失衡和面对竞赛的患得患失。面对着同龄人的压力,多数人似乎将输赢看得愈发重要，孰不知，正是在对输赢的盲目追求下,我们正在成为鲁迅先生笔下“愚弱的国民”正是在对输赢的心境转变中，成为了海明威笔下“迷惘的一代”……

何妨借鉴古人之赛马“不耻最后”?何妨学习河岸之青草，身居河岸凝视水渊仍可内心淡泊?我们不妨向鲁迅先生口中“落后而仍非跑至终点不止的竞技者”和“肃然不笑的看客”学习，理性看待输,成为中国脊梁?

余独向往如青草一般呼吸，粗粝能甘，纷华不染……

英语翻译

I will breathe like grass, on a high bank. The abyss at my feet is unfathomable, black as the backbone of a catfish. "

Gu Cheng described the surrounding environment of the green grass and its indifferent attitude towards losing and losing.

Why not follow the breath of the grass and quietly examine the winners and losers in the competition?

Living in the current life, people are gradually being threatened by all kinds of competitions. Whether it is the comparison of performance in school life or the competition of work performance in the workplace, people are always unable to escape the vicious circle of competition, so , Winning or losing after facing the competition is very important.

If you win in the competition, it is like climbing a "high bank". If you lose in the competition, it is like falling into an "unfathomable abyss". How many of us can breathe like the grass on the river bank, Rough but sweet, colorful but not stained?

The famous American essayist and thinker Thoreau once said frankly in his book "Walden Lake": "The reality of winning or losing is nothing more than a small gain and loss in life." After careful consideration, this statement is more than trustworthy. In the face of numerous competitions, winning or losing is a common occurrence. May as well breathe freely like grass, calmly face the gains and losses brought about by winning or losing. Reflect on the process of competition with the result of winning or losing, and belittle winning or losing. Reflecting on the insufficiency of oneself with rough loss, and finally regaining satisfaction, and admonishing oneself with the victory of riots to exhort oneself to be humble. These parties are the correct attitude towards winning or losing in the competition.

However, it is still unavoidable to worry about the present moment. In the face of increasingly fierce competition, people are stunned by winning or losing without knowing it. They can let go with the superficial indifference to cover up their feelings of disappointment and pride and complacency. Win or lose actually shakes people's spiritual concepts and value orientation from the subconscious. From the meaningless involution of Inspur Group that uses overtime as a competition and determines wins and losses by time, what we see is the utilitarian psychology of winning or losing cannibalize the psychology of contemporary people, and what we see is the dissolution of the desire to win or lose to the spirit of contemporary people. !

If things go on like this, how can you imagine?

Just as the "Twenty-Four Poems" said: "Empty Tan Yingchun, ancient mirrors illuminate the gods." The current misunderstanding of competition and winning or losing is reflecting the imbalance of people's mentality in the face of winning and losing and the troubles and losses of facing competition. Facing the pressure of peers, most people seem to regard winning or losing more and more importantly. Don’t know, it is precisely in the blind pursuit of winning or losing that we are becoming the “foolish citizens” described by Mr. Lu Xun. In the changing mood, he became the "lost generation" described by Hemingway...

Why not learn from the ancient people’s horse racing "not ashamed to be the last"? Why not learn from the grass on the riverbank and still be indifferent while standing on the riverbank and gazing at the abyss? The spectator who doesn’t smile" learns, treats losses rationally, and becomes the backbone of China?

Yu Du longed to breathe like grass, rough and sweet, colorful and untainted...